Black Women dating Black Women

First of all, I’m not mad.  A bit perplexed, but not mad.  I often think that if I were a woman, I’d be a lesbian too…Anyway, I had the pleasure of attending a Halloween party the other night and a handful of women were dressed up as men. The odd thing about it was that--being that it is 2005--I couldn't tell if it was a costume or not?...  I really threw me off.  It's not like I care, but I do remember a time when if a woman dressed like a man, or had facial hair it was definitely a costume. 

As for the whole lesbian thing…I learned a long time ago to not intervene and to just respect their relationship like any other.  The way I feel about it, I love women, and I would hate for a single Brotha like me to push up on my girl.  So I do unto others as I’d want them to blah, blah, blah…I’m not mad.  Just bit perplexed this Halloween.